Well TBH EC, i think you did the right thing, No matter what any one else has said about it. Just because there to stuck up to help others doesn't mean we all are. I think who ever you tried to help should put a stop to this as well, he/she should be grateful they had you at their side. Otherwise they may never of had help ever. TBH i think they should all get a grip and get on with their perthetic little lives and stop jumping all over people because someone tried to help them. lets put it this way your in some ones debt and i hope they come to realize this and know that you tried to help them.....